Life With Gene

Self Love

Have you ever focused on self love?

I consistently see others struggling to set their goals, trying to figure out exactly what they want to accomplish. However, have you ever taken the time to figure out what it is you really want to achieve?

What is the goal behind your goals?

To begin, do this very important, but simple exercise:

Take a few minutes and look at all your goals. Now, ask your self, “Why do I want those particular goals?”

Look for the reason behind the surface reason as to why those goals are important to you. For example, let’s say one of your goals is for a new house. Why do you want a new house?

Usual examples might be something like “To feel good; to impress others; to be comfortable and so on.” I want you to really dig. Get to the core of why you want each goal.

If you dig deep enough, you will discover the true goal which hides behind all your other goals really comes down to this – finding love and happiness. Read more…

Here’s a humorous video from Colin Pearce where he tells the story of a guy trying to get a job as the bell ringer.

Enjoy!